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  • As you can see from my previous questions this is still going on!!!

    Hereâ ™s my story â “ I meet him at the movies and it was instant attraction we started seeing each other (but I never slept with him - I wanted to do things differently) and after 3 months he did the disappearing act on me.

    We then bumped into each other randomly the following July at the local super market and things started up again. I stupidly told him that while I was seeing him the previous time I was sleeping with someone else... he promised not to do the disappearing act again â “ which he didnâ ™t but contact grew less & less... Then my father got very angry with him and told him to stay away from me! So now he's petrified of my father!!!

    The following July I bumped into him again at the airport and it all started up again. But I left shortly afterwards on a round the world trip... Now Iâ ™m back

    I saw him on Mon for the 1st time... He called and I went to visit him at his place â “ he was lovely flirting with me and we got on great, then I asked if now that I was back could we spend more time together... He didnâ ™t give me a straight answers but beat around the bush asking if it would be as friend or more... So I told him how full off **** he was.
    When I was leaving I asked if I could get a good-bye kiss and he came to kiss me... Great kisses on the lips but with a closed mouth â “ so I said is something wrong, donâ ™t you like me â “ and he said I really do (without hesitating or anything) and I said well why donâ ™t you want to kiss me? He answered â “ I do but you just relax take it easy...... And thatâ ™s where we left it.

    Heâ ™s never straight with me and always leaves me confused and wondering what his intentions are.... Heâ ™s so lovely to me then so distant at the same time. Now I donâ ™t know when Iâ ™ll hear from him or see him again. I donâ ™t know how to play this game... I really like him and want to spend time with him to get to know him better and find out if we have a future together... I'm not ready to let this go yet.

    What do you read from his actions???


  • He's messing with you.


  • dont girls usually want guys to slow down? dont worry its all good. he has respect for you thats why he was slow about progressing


  • I think he is a bit scared if falling in love with you and then use fall apart.. Maybe the next time u see him use should have a talk sanbout it and let him know that you really like him and want u and him to work and u think use have something special. If use are meant to be then use will work it all out and everything will be ok :)


  • You've bounced in and out of this guys life several times. Do you think its possible that he may wanna be a little cautious? If ya really wanna keep seeing this guy, keep seeing him and don't pressure him for answers on everything, let things move at a natural pace. Think of Monday (the first time you seen him again) as a true first date with someone new. You wouldn't put that kind of pressure on someone you just started dating would ya? Just my 2 cents, hope it helps.







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