in so sad. I can't say I blame him, though. I was so mean to him...terribly mean to him...I did so wrong and now I recognize that...It hurts but he's so right...And now I can clearly see that he was one if not the best boyfriend a girl could ever have found...he put up with me for 3 years...he even put up with my "I love Edward Cullen" stage. He was always there for me when I needed him. Never told me I was wrong and gave me anything I wanted. Heck, he even spent 275 dollars on my birthday present. And now I lost him...He cheated on me once when we had barely started going out and he was a little player that treated girls as if they were toys but he changed...for me. Him cheating on me was the main reason I treated him the way I treated him. We sit next to each other for some classes and well I love him desperately and he seems to love me back. When we broke up we told each other we would see other people ad he hasn't done it..he stayed true to his words. When I sit with him he gives me those eyes...those pained eyes that tel me he want's me back but I dont think that would ever happen because I treated him so bad. I asked him if I should move desks and he said "if you want" I started getting up and he grabbed my elbow and sat me down. He told me "please dont leave" When we start to talk about totally breaking our communication he stares off into space like if he were trying to hide his face from me and once he held on to my face and kissed me..so so sweetly. I don't know what to do. I know he won't take me back...at least not now...I hurt him too much...should I stop talking to him? completely...? It would hurt so much but I want to heal as well as I want him to heal...
im so sorry but this should be a soap opera. Its VERY dramatic.
Okay, so he broke up with you? it kinda seems like you broke up with him instead, like you seem more aware of his feelings but what about your own? us girls need not to blame everything on ourselves but to keep it mutual ya know. but yes, three years is a long time and every relationship needs time to heal on it's own. Maybe you guys just need your time away and see what it's like to be with other people and if that doesn't feel right get back together. Your situation was like my friends but she was a total wreck without him but they eventually worked everthing out like six months down the road and are fine. So maybe stop talking to him and giving each other space for now is a good thing to do.
basically, like everybody said
just spend time apart and see what happens
Girll, [im using my dads account, sh dont tell him] anyways, as i said before, GIRL! look, that happened to me before, and if you want him back and he wants you back, then its obvious that he still cares about you, due to holding your elbow back and didn't want you to move, i say, go get him back and tell that you can change like he changed for you, tell him why you treated him the way you did, that you were scared of him cheating on you again, and that you didn't want that to happen, and if you're those types of girls that are scared and dont wanna be a weenie, then suck it up and be a weenie, for him. love will work itself out, but it needs you to make the first step, close your eyes, and open them again, and when you do, keep your head up, and smile, even if its a no on the relationship, just know that when you see him with another girl, and he's smiling, its YOU that made him smile, HIS HAPPINESS IS MORE IMPORTANT TO YOU THEN YOUR OWN SADNESS. =] get your man, and smile even if it doesn't work out, because you know that you both have taught eachother something valuble, [spelling check] and both will remember eachother til your both 6 feet under.
it's called MOVING ON. As long as you are in close proximity together, you will never make that break. You both have hurt each other; and need to start anew ELSEWHERE. good luck, =)
You shouldve treated him better! and you still should! no don't stop talking to him.
You should talk to him about getting back together, and changing your ways. Apologize for the way you treated him. :) Tell him how you feel!
Spend time apart and see what happens.
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